I love sections like the one we read for today in Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She’s Sorry by Fredrik Backman. We read Chapters 9-17. In the middle of Chapter 9 when I read: “And Elsa should have understood this from the beginning. She really should have understood everything from the beginning.” I thought, Me too, Elsa!
I will admit that at first, I wasn’t sure about this book. As was mentioned by others last week the fairytale stuff isn’t normally my cup of tea. However, the clever story-telling and little humorous one-liners have hooked me.
Nods to Elsa being a little kid
1. In this section, Elsa is beginning to learn more about her grandma and see her beyond simply Elsa’s advocate. Her grandma was a surgeon and traveled all over the world, often leaving Elsa’s mom alone.
2. She finds out her birthday was the date of the horrible Tsunami in Thailand.
3. Elsa gets so annoyed with The Monster!
4. She hopes that her quest will end in Elsa delivering an apology from her grandma to her mom. I loved this childlike hopeful longing. (And I’m with you, Elsa! I hope it does too.)
Nods to fairy tales
1. The quest! It’s so fairy tale and so reflective of the Hope we have. Even though she has died, God is still working redemption into Granny’s story.
2. We got more names. We now have Our Friend, The Monster, and The Drunk.
3. Words that are made up, yet real. Miamas, Wurses, the Sea Angel, and the regretters. I’m curious to learn more about the regretters since they “live in herds.” How true!
4. The hero (Elsa) and the side characters (the Monster and the wurse.) Anyone else thinking of Shrek and Donkey with the wurse and the Monster?)!
Nods to humor
1. When the wurse and Elsa were just inside the Monster’s apartment and he was described as “The Monster with extreme frustration.” It doesn’t sound so funny out of context, but that line cracked me up!
2. Elsa commented that “The Monster probably didn’t read as much quality literature as one might hope” in reference to Harry Potter.
3. “You don’t like talking much, do you?” Elsa said to The Monster. “No . . . but you do. All the time.” And that’s the first time Elsa believes he’s smiling. Or almost, anyway. “Touche.” Elsa grins.
4. Psychotherapists and pshcyoterropits. HA.
Nods to reality
1. Elsa is beginning to understand the complexities of her mom’s relationship with her grandma. “You were all her second chances.” Just this week a friend of mine returned to her hometown for the first time since her mom died. She said, “Oh the air in Kansas is so clean. This was a wonderful place to grow up. I just wish my mom liked me more. She was, however, a wonderful grandma.” And then I read this section of the book. Granny did so much for so many, but at the cost of her own child.
2. We keep getting glances into the tender side of people it would be easy to see as one-dimensional. In the scene when Elsa, the wurse, and The Monster delivered the second letter we see that The Drunk is also a functioning member of society with a job. She is more than a drunk.
3. I was touched that Granny wrote a letter to The Monster’s mom, apologizing for the fact that she never found her even though she kept looking in the camps.
I’m curious what else will be revealed as we continue into the third section.
Over to you. What stands out to you? What are you seeing differently as we go along?
See you in the comments,
- August 7th: Chapters 1-8
- August 14th: Chapters 9-17
- August 21st: Chapters 18-26
- August 28th: Chapters 27-the end
September—Monique and the Mango Rains: Two Years with a Midwife in Mali by Kris Holloway (we’ve got something fun up our sleeves for you!)
October/November—Liturgy of the Ordinary by Tish Harrison Warren
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